Turn your partner wild

In my previous articles, I always advised that in between two loving partners, there should not be any curtain of inhibition or shyness, which normally seen in Asian girls due to family and social backgrounds. Generally, more or less women partners feel shy to open up due to fear of “if he minds something or if he take it otherwise”. In fact, in sexual acts, nothing is forbidden for any of the partners. Woman partner’s wilderness or her leading moves, in fact, makes her partner wilder by turning him on heavily.

The women partners should know that the man who really loves you would love to please you in every way possible. So whenever you are in sexual session with him, do not shy, talk to him and tell him if he’s doing just what you wanted. Do not feel shy to tell him which give you pleasure to continue with it for longer.  That may be posture, duration, speed, force or simply longer foreplay, which most women like to have for longer duration before ultimate vaginal intercourse.

So when you desire to have a sex with your partner, just take note of the following few suggestions, which make your man wilder, and the ultimate act may be memorable to you both.

Surprise him with a wild move

Be wild to make him wild. Surprise him by your unexpected wild when you both are engaged in it.  Something erotic that he will remember for long. Make the session extra ordinary one with your moves.  Work on pleasuring him in different ways, he likes most.

Offer the spice of variety

Every man likes variety. So allow him to go for change in speed, positions and pressure which can really make the entire experience very different. Whether it is the foreplay or the actual act, if there is variety he will never really know what to expect and therefore it will help a great deal in revving up his senses.

Turn it on yourself

Women take time to get aroused. Men love aroused partner always so that he can actually get to work with out any delay to make you aroused. Though your man may love to do all that he needs to in order to get you turned on but he would definitely like it if you were already half-way there. Somehow the fact that you are already in an aroused state is a huge thing for him. It gives an indication that you too wants him and waiting for him. This gives him an extra sense of satisfaction.

Don’t be scared to be naughty

Don’t hold back when you are in a session with your guy. You may have a ‘good girl’ image which you don’t want to break. But men love to see the other side of yours  So don’t be scared to break the ‘good girl’ image of you. The men will never cause offense by actually asking you to do it. It is worth doing because men just love it. Just show him that you are really into him and want him as much as he wants you.

Give him an eyeful

Leaving something on your body, for him to remove can be very arousing. Males always like to see his actions in mirror. Generally women get shy to it but just allow him and make sure that act takes place in front of a mirror near your bed so that you both can see the sexual act in action. It can be hot.

Get rough

Yes, be informed that men want it rough at times and he would love it if you let him know that you want it too. In fact women loves roughness so what’s wrong to let him know your liking from your mouth. Speak out or say it with your body postures. Bring out the beast in him and tell him you are having (enjoying) the time of your life.

Take over

Sometimes men just want you to take over while he just lies down and enjoys your strokings. Everyman likes it. It is an ultimate fantasy for men to see you active in this posture. So don’t be shy, take it over, and drive it.

New version of Kama Sutra

A new version of sage Vatsyayana’s ‘Kama Sutra’, the ancient Indian book known as the ultimate sex manual, will now be updated as a text-only “ Lifestyle guide for the modern man and woman” and no more descriptions of adventurous lovemaking.

Instead of the erotic drawings and sexual illustrations that have accompanied various translations of the ancient Kama Sutra, the new edition, will be a text-only pocket-sized handbook, described as a ‘classy’ manual ‘covering every aspect of love and relationships’.

The writer of the new version A.N.D. Haksar was quoted as saying: ‘My effort with the new translation has been to stay as close as possible to the original text but to present it in a contemporary language which reflects the contemporary issues within the book.’

‘Kama’ means ‘the desire for sensual pleasure’, but in contrast to popular theory, only one of the Kama Sutra’s seven ‘books’ is dedicated purely to sex. The second and longest book outlines tips on how to enhance sexual pleasure and provides detailed descriptions of intricate sexual positions.

Beside dealing with Sex, there are sections to deal with social etiquette and good-living, courtship, marriage, extramarital relations, mistresses and courtesans and advice on how to enhance one’s physical attractiveness.

It is reported that the new version would be ‘less pornographic, and more a lifestyle guide for the urbane and modern gentleman and woman’. The book will be presented as a modern and savvy guide for how to live well.’

Benefits of Sex

If you thought the only benefit of sex was, well, pleasure, here’s some news for you. Making love is good for adults. And making love regularly is even better! Not only does it help you sleep well, relieve stress and burn calories, there are several other reasons why you need to have sex more often.

A recent study says that men who have sex more than twice a week, had a lesser risk of getting a heart attack than men who had sex less than once a month.

Boosts Immunity : Regular love making increases the body’s level of the immune-boosting antibody immunoglobulin A (IgA), which will make your body stronger against illnesses like the common cold and fever.

Promotes Longevity : When one has an orgasm, a hormone called Dehydroepiandrosterone is released, which improves your immunity and repairs tissue and keeps the skin healthy. Men who have at least two orgasms a week, live longer than men who have sex just once every few weeks.

Because your heart rate increases, fresh blood is supplied to your organs and cells. While used blood is removed, you also discard things from your body that cause you to feel tired.

Notice that just after you make love, the sleep you get thereafter is much more relaxed. Getting a good night’s sleep will make you feel alert and healthy overall.

INCREASES YOUR LEVELS OF ESTROGEN AND TESTOSTERONE  : In men, testosterone is what makes you more passionate in the sack. Not only will it make you feel way better in bed, but it is also known to improve your muscles and keep your heart healthy and a check on your cholesterol. Estrogen in women protects against heart disease and also determines their body scent.

G-spot

PREVIOUS STUDY : G-SPOT EXISTS :

The area is named after Dr. Ernest Grafenberg, who first described it in a 1950 article in the International Journal of Sexology. It is supposed to trigger one of the most intense orgasms imaginable for women, with waves of pleasure spreading out across the whole body.

After a lot of debate and bedroom exploration, some experts have concluded this bean shaped and pea sized erogenous zone in women is located behind the pubic bone and is accessible through the anterior wall of the vagina. When this spot is stimulated by deep pressure, it produces vaginal orgasm, distinctly different from the clitoral orgasm.

Recently, doctors claimed to have found the first compelling evidence that the G-spot exists, but say not all women appear to have one. Ultrasound scans revealed clear anatomical differences between women who said they experienced vaginal orgasms and women who did not. The scans identified a region of thicker tissue where the G-spot was rumored to lurking.

LATEST STUDY: G-SPOT IS A MYTH : The Gräfenberg Spot, or G-Spot, is a term used to describe the area of the vagina that might contain an erogenous zone which when stimulated can lead to high levels of sexual arousal and powerful orgasms.

After years of bedroom exploration and debate, a row about the location of the fabled G-spot might be finally over – but in vain. A study by British scientists claims the sexual pleasure zone doesn’t exist at all. After surveying more than 1,800 women, scientists at King’s College London concluded, “the idea of a G-spot is subjective,” reports The Times.

“Women may argue that having a G-spot is due to diet or exercise, but in fact it is virtually impossible to find real traits,” said Tim Spector, professor of genetic epidemiology, who co-authored the research.

While 56 percent of women overall claimed to have a G-spot, they tended to be younger and more sexually active.

Andrea Burri, who led the research, said: “It is rather irresponsible to claim the existence of an entity that has never really been proven and pressurise women – and men, too.”

This study proves the difference between popular science and biological or anatomical science.

Going down on her

I just started a topic on Orgasm, when a boy was rejected by his girlfriend due to his failure to satisfy her on the very first day. Naturally he was upset. He is not alone, men often feel unmanly if they can’t satisfy their woman by vaginal intercourse. As already said that a large number of women can’t reach to orgasm through normal vaginal intercourse. But it can be tried to achieve that golden moment by means of favorable postures to orgasm, after prolonged foreplay.

However, even if you fail to achieve it with your partner, there is nothing wrong with you or your partner, and there is nothing to feel unmanly, because there are many factors related to orgasm. And also it varies woman to woman. Because of these variations, some women enjoy orgasm, some women can’t. There’s no need to get upset when your lady don’t reach orgasm. Instead, love her and try to give her that pleasure of orgasm by mastering the art of cunnilingus, going down on her.

Cunnilingus is the act of using the mouth, lips, and tongue to stimulate the female genitals. The clitoris is particularly noted as the most sexually sensitive part of the female genitalia. Shere Hite, a sex educator, notes that most women achieve orgasm easily from clitoral stimulation as part of cunnilingus.

Some women find cunnilingus to be the most satisfying sexual act. Indeed, this oral sex is the only way a large number of women can achieve orgasm.

Doggy style

The woman is on all-fours, taking her weight on her forearms. The man kneels behind her, and enters her from behind, controlling the movement with his hips. This classic position will give both partners a great deal of pleasure, as the deep penetration will not only stimulate the vaginal walls, but also the G spot. The Dog will appeal to men who like to take the dominant role during sex and to women who like deep penetration and a high level of stimulation. However, some women may feel demeaned by the submissive role, or may feel pain, in which case there are plenty more positions to chose from!

Kamasutra described this posture as below :

When a woman stands on her hands and feet like a quadruped, and her lover mounts her like a bull, it is called the `congress of a cow’. At this time everything that is ordinarily done on the bosom should be done on the back.

Oral Sex

Oral sex consists of all sexual activities that involve the use of the mouth and tongue to stimulate genitalia

There are some reasons to practice Oral sex by the heterosexual (male–female) couple but it is commonly practiced for pleasure or as foreplay. Many women who are anorgasmic can only achieve orgasm through oral sex, and so they often prefer it instead of or in addition to sexual intercourse.

Oral sex is practiced in both heterosexual (male –female) and homosexual (same sex) relationships. In male-female relationships, oral sex can be a temporary measure of contraception, and may be opted as an alternative to intercourse for this reason. It is said by experts that oral sex is not an effective methods of preventing sexually transmitted diseases (STDs).

If a couple is uncomfortable with intercourse during menstruation, they may engage in fellatio. If a couple is uncomfortable or unable to perform intercourse during pregnancy, they may engage in oral sex.

Cunnilingus and Fellatio are two common oral sex involving a woman and man’s genitals (as shown in the above pictures). In these cases one partner remains passive but “69” posture is the best way of Oral Sex performed by both partners for simultaneous pleasure of Oral Sex. In Kama Sutra it is called “Congress of the crow”.

Partners lie with their heads at opposite ends of the bed, on their sides (or women over male). The taller partner has to curl up a bit so that each partner’s mouth is lined up with the other’s genitals and vice versa. The most sensitive part of the penis is under the rim of the head. Running female partners tongue under there is sure to please him and so the female partner is pleased when his tongue moves over her clit. Both are leaking each others most sensitive parts of the sexual organs and enjoying the pleasure. This generates pleasures to greater heights emanating moaning sound from both the partners. This way both will reach to extreme leading to climax. At extreme point, she may cry with pleasure before orgasm.

 

Variant of Missionary Posture

Coital Alignment Technique (CAT ) Posture :

The CAT position is a variant of the missionary position designed to maximize clitoral stimulation during coitus. This is achieved by combining the “riding high” variation of the missionary position with pressure-counter pressure movements performed by each partner in rhythm with coitus. The penetrating partner lies above the receiving partner as in the missionary position, but moves upward along her body, so that the base of his penis provides stimulation to her clitoris. The receiving partner may also wrap her legs around his. Sexual movement is focused in the pelvises, without leverage from the arms or legs. The Rocking upward stroke (receiving partner leads) and downward stroke (penetrating partner leads) of sexual movement builds an electric-like charge that partners let develop and peak naturally.

This doesn’t mean that it works for everyone. It may take a bit of practice.

Seventh Posture

The Kamasutra of Vatsyayana believed to have been written in the 1^st to 6^th centuries, has a notorious reputation as a sex manual, although only a small part of its text is devoted to sex. Other ancient sex manuals include the lost works of Elephantis; Ananga Ranga, a 12^th century collection of Hindu erotic works; and The perfumed Garden, a 16^th century Arabic work by Sheikh Nefzaoui.

The Seventh Posture of The Perfumed Garden (Burton’s translation into English) is an unusual position not described in other classical sex manuals. Though it is not described in other sex manuals, but most of the couples make use of this posture due to advantages. The posture goes like this: The female partner lies on her side. The male partner faces her, straddling the female’s lower leg, and lifts the upper leg onto the crook of male’s elbow or onto the shoulder. While both the legs up, vagina is exposed out and male’s member can enter smoothly. In this posture fast and heavy stroking is not possible, that’s why most of the couples make use of this posture during pregnancy..

Couples can discover new postures during their sexual adventures. This posture too is a common one and I believe, most of the couples use it. Though it is not a very satisfying one but many times it is used., especially during pregnancy. Couples while lying side by side, you can communicate each other and engage in foreplay. In fact couple get engaged in this posture while foreplay lying side by side in the bed. While foreplay is on and both are equally aroused, the male partner place his body between her thighs and legs are positioned as said above, and enters her.

Variants of postures

Most sex acts are typically performed on a bed or other simple platform or on the floor. As the range of supports available increases, so does the range of positions that are possible. Ordinary furniture can be used for this purpose. For example a study table or dinning table or kitchen platform can be a good platform for performing sexual intercourse. The female partner will be sitting on the edge of the table and the male partner be standing facing each other. The female partner rest her legs on her partner’s shoulder or wraps around his waist. The male partner insert his member into her vagina, adjusting his height. This is a variant of Missionary posture.

Variants of Women on Top

The popular and pro orgasm posture “women on top” are having some variants. These variants may be useful for either vaginal or anal penetration. The following are the variations:

(a) Sitting on surface or Bed : Here the male partner sits on the surface, legs outstretched. The female partner sits on top(on the lap) taking the penis into her vagina and wraps her legs around her partner. This is called ‘pounding on the spot’ in the perfumed garden. Since both the partner is facing each other closely and the upper parts of the body are easily accessible to both the partners thus foreplay or caressing is possible at any point of time.

Sometimes it may happen like this : the female partner wraps her legs around her partner’s waist and holding him by hands around his neck, keeping her head on her partner’s shoulder. These results upper parts of both the bodies held together tightly which may prevent her from pounding the clit but being lower portion of her body, not tightly held and being under her control, she can still stimulate it by moving her waist and hips and enjoy the clitoral stimulations. Stimulation may not be vigorous but slow. The pace of her movement of her clitoris would depend as per the demand of her body (Clitoris) and she can control the same. If the posture prevents her movements there are every possibility to push the male partner and make him flat on the bed or floor and she rides the way “women on top” posture and reaches to the Golden moment of Orgasm.

(b) The male partner sits on a chair. The female partner straddles her partner and sits, facing each other, feet on the floor. This is sometimes known as the lap dance.

( c) The male partner stands, holding the female partner off the ground. The female partner wraps her legs around the male partner’s waist and the female partners’ arms around his neck while male partner holds her thighs or buttocks while penetrating the vagina from the bottom. The female partner takes active part in this by moving her vagina up and down with the support of her legs.

(d) Same as the above posture, but the female partner’s back is pressed against a wall as a frictional support. The male partner takes active part while penetrating the vagina from the bottom. This is called the supported congress in the Kama Sutra.